The Real Reason Most Entrepreneurs Struggle with AI (And What Changed for Me)
This morning, my coffee was cooling beside me, the quiet hum of my laptop filling the room. I opened it to work on a new project with AI, something that now feels natural, but my hands hovered over the keyboard for a moment.
That pause took me straight back to when I first started exploring these tools.
Back then, curiosity wasn’t the first thing I felt.
I felt… cautious.
Not because I didn’t see the potential, but because every article, every video, every checklist seemed to whisper the same thing:
You’re already behind. You need to move faster. You need to automate everything. You need to keep up.
But what if I didn’t want to keep up?
What if I just wanted things to feel… simpler?
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by all the tech talk, or like everyone else is fluent in a language you never learned, you’re not alone.
The Real Struggle: It’s Not Just the Tech
Most AI tools aren’t actually that complicated. What makes them feel out of reach is the way they’re often presented: fast, pushy, rigid.
The quiet message underneath? If you’re not optimizing everything right now, you’re already falling behind.
But here’s what I’ve learned: You’re not behind, you’re just carrying too much at once.
So many women I work with share the same thoughts:
“I feel so far behind.”
“Everyone else seems to know what they’re doing.”
“I just want something that honors my rhythm.”
Underneath those words is the same fear I carried: fear of being replaced, fear of sounding robotic, fear of losing the magic that makes your work yours.
If this sounds familiar, you might like Why Everyone Seems to ‘Get’ AI (And Why That’s Actually Not True), where I share why the AI learning curve feels so steep for so many of us.
One client told me after trying a few prompts from my Starter Pack: “I thought using AI meant giving up control. But instead, it felt like someone was finally listening to what I actually needed.”
What Changed for Me
The turning point wasn’t some perfect software or clever hack. It was the moment I stopped seeing AI as a race to master… and started treating it as a quiet, steady partner.
The first time I co-created a blog post with ChatGPT, I didn’t feel replaced; I felt supported. Like I had a patient brainstorming buddy who could hold the messy parts while I found the thread.
That small shift gave me:
Clarity
Confidence
Permission to create on my own terms
Now, I lean on my prompt packs and my Notion dashboard every single week, not as a way to keep up, but as gentle scaffolding so I can focus on the part I love most: writing in my own voice.
If that kind of ease sounds good to you, my Free 20 AI Prompts Guide is a gentle, safe starting point. They’re the same prompts I used when I first began, designed so AI feels like a partner, not a pressure.
I also shared more about this shift in How I Use ChatGPT in a Soulful Way (Without Losing My Human Heart), if you’re curious how I keep my content human-first.
Three Gentle Ways to Begin Today
Here’s what I want you to know: you don’t need to master tech to benefit from it.
You don’t need to be the fastest, the smartest, or the most organized. You just need one small, safe place to start.
When I think back to those early days, here’s what I wish I’d known:
Start with curiosity, not a full plan.
Choose one thing you’d like AI to help with, just one. Maybe it’s outlining your next blog post or softening the tone of an email.Bring your words to the screen.
Even a fragment of a sentence is enough. Ask AI to build from there so your voice always leads.Let it meet you in the middle.
You don’t have to start with a blank page. Drop in something half-finished and see what ideas it offers. Keep the realness, don’t polish yourself out of it.
These are the same kinds of prompts I leaned on when I first began experimenting gently. They helped me move from stuck to supported, and they might do the same for you.
If you’d like to try them, start with my Free 20 AI Prompts Guide. It’s not about doing it all; it’s about taking one gentle step at a time.
And if content creation as a whole has been feeling heavy, you might enjoy Why Content Planning Feels So Heavy (And How I Use AI to Make It Lighter), it’s full of breathing-space ideas that take the pressure off.
Let Tech Serve You, Not Shape You
AI isn’t here to replace your intuition, it’s here to support it.
You’re allowed to go slowly.
You’re allowed to protect your energy and your voice.
You’re allowed to use tech in a way that feels personal, grounded, and true.
We’re all just figuring it out, one gentle step at a time.
And I see this shift every day…
An Invitation: You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
If you’re tired of carrying the weight of content creation by yourself, we can untangle it together.
You can schedule a free Clarity Call to talk through your ideas and find the simplest next step for you. Or join me in a Content Creation Intensive, a cozy, collaborative session where we (virtually) sit side-by-side and shape your content together.
And if all you want right now is a small place to begin, download the Free 20 AI Prompts Guide.
It might be the first breath of fresh air you’ve had in a while.